Toxic Relationships in the Household from the Perspective of Hadith

Abstract

The many phenomena of physical and psychological violence that occur in households to make it difficult for someone to get out of a toxic relationship that is unhealthy or toxic to the increasing divorce rate is one of the reasons for this research. The author will review from a Hadith perspective by understanding how the Prophet views and guides his people regarding toxic relationship behaviour in the household. The methodology used in this research is a qualitative approach with the hadith thematic method and grounded theory. the result of this research is that the author finds and classifies 26 hadith findings. the author makes three major themes that will be discussed in this article, namely understanding toxic, patterns and signs of toxicity in the household, the effects of toxicity, and prevention and handling of toxicity in the household from the hadith perspective. Toxic relationships are the beginning of the destruction of a relationship, especially in a household. Many bad effects will occur due to toxicity, even mentally will also bear the effects. So before anyone should enter into marriage, it is necessary to learn a lot about understanding a partner, learning to be a good partner, and soleh or solehah and ta'at of religion, if the knowledge of households is mastered before the utterance of ijab qabul, this will minimise the occurrence of toxic in a household relationship.